Never make someone a priority that only sees you as an option

Never make someone a priority, when all you are for them is an option. Everyone comes into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. As relationships last longer, you may notice that in the beginning, you were a priority in someones life. As time goes on things may change and you may become an option. Phone calls and time together lessens. Plans get broken last minute. They contact you only when they need something, to share the latest drama in their life or when nothing better comes up. At that point you realize the relationship was for a reason or a season, and it is OKAY. When you let your time and energy be devoted to those who are making you a priority, you continue on your journey with new lessons and friendships.

  Is there someone in your life that you are devoting a lot of time and energy to and they are making you an option? If so, don't let go of the relationship, but invest that time smarter by giving it to those who are making you a priority.  To live your best life put your time and energy into the lives of those people who invest their time in you.   It matters.